to live with a person you dont really love
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to live with a person you dont really love
How hard could be for a person share a life together with another one who dont really love even when the other do?
There are ways to make this situation soportable?
There are ways to make this situation soportable?
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Bamboo, those 'ugh's were not directed at you or anyone here. They were just the most intelligent comment I could make on this topic at the moment, and sadly I was/am too affected by it to keep my cyber mouth shut.
My advice is threefold:
1. Don't waste more than a year of life trying to recapture lost love. It's a long shot. Worthwhile, maybe, but a long shot. I spent about five years trying this and all it got me was blame, contempt, and belittlement.
2. Don't count on being let go. Most people would rather hold on to whatever aspect of you is comforting to them, and fuck whatever pain they're infliciting in the process.
3. Don't take advice from bitter people. It's always so negative.
My advice is threefold:
1. Don't waste more than a year of life trying to recapture lost love. It's a long shot. Worthwhile, maybe, but a long shot. I spent about five years trying this and all it got me was blame, contempt, and belittlement.
2. Don't count on being let go. Most people would rather hold on to whatever aspect of you is comforting to them, and fuck whatever pain they're infliciting in the process.
3. Don't take advice from bitter people. It's always so negative.
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